​I work with men experiencing difficulties around sex, sexuality, relationships and intimacy, with a particular focus on compulsive sexual behaviour.

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Clients often tell me they want a therapist who will both listen and have something to say. I believe that a good connection and two-way communication is essential in order for therapy to be successful. My therapeutic approach is all about helping you do the work to overcome the obstacles that hinder you in your life. 

 

I specialise in helping clients with problematic sexual behaviours including compulsive sexual behaviour (often referred to as sex or porn addiction).  I provide support in understanding where a client's sexual behaviours originate from and in exploring their sexual and relational life. This process helps develop a clearer awareness of a client's unique sexual and relational system. Together, we make sense of  sexual urges and desires, needs, wants, and longings. We also explore values and the foundations of  personal integrity.

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With this deeper insight, you can begin to make changes in different areas of your life that support a fulfilling sex life within stable relationships.

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My approach is grounded in respect and sex-positivity. In my clinical experience, this approach is highly effective and helps support a sustainable way of living over the long term.

 

I offer a supportive space to explore issues, such as betrayal, mismatched desire or enhancing erotic intimacy.  I also address specific concerns such as disappointing erections, low sexual desire, premature ejaculation, and delayed  ejaculation.

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I am polyamory and kink informed and friendly.  I know these are things both individuals and intimate partners might be curious about and want to explore.  This may be part of a client's life, though it is often not the main reason they come to therapy, and sometimes it is. 

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I work at your pace and I use a wide variety of approaches, depending on what works best for you.​